How can struggles be beneficial for my child?


Look at struggles as areas of opportunity.

Life is filled with struggles, but how we view and approach them makes all the difference. Romans 5:3-4 reminds us, “We also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.” Struggles, when approached with the right mindset, can be powerful tools for growth in both you and your child.

When your child faces challenges—whether academic, relational, or emotional—encourage them to see these moments as opportunities to learn and grow. Struggles reveal areas where they can build resilience, develop new skills, and deepen their character. Rather than focusing on the difficulty, focus on the possibilities it presents.

As a parent, your role is to guide them through these moments with encouragement and wisdom. Ask reflective questions like, “What can we learn from this?” or, “How can we approach this differently next time?” These conversations help your child reframe setbacks as stepping stones to success.

Model this perspective in your own life. When you face struggles, share how you’re working through them and what you’re learning. This transparency teaches your child that challenges are not something to fear but an opportunity to trust God’s plan and grow stronger together.

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